1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:10,960 OK, let's not talk about probably one of my favorite subjects, even though it is supposed to be like 2 00:00:10,970 --> 00:00:20,180 very serious and psychological and people are actually bothered a lot by it, but actually it is much 3 00:00:20,180 --> 00:00:22,130 more fun than you think. 4 00:00:22,370 --> 00:00:31,370 And if you look at this as a fun thing, then you will probably feel completely different compared to 5 00:00:31,910 --> 00:00:34,040 whatever you are feeling right now. 6 00:00:34,430 --> 00:00:38,660 So I want to talk about haters, haters, haters, haters. 7 00:00:38,670 --> 00:00:44,030 Bad people hate when they see haters on their channel and people are bothered by them and they want 8 00:00:44,030 --> 00:00:44,810 to get rid of them. 9 00:00:44,810 --> 00:00:49,550 And haters and haters and haters, haters are everywhere, haters and every single channel. 10 00:00:49,970 --> 00:00:54,260 They dislike the videos they write very angry and hateful comments. 11 00:00:54,500 --> 00:01:01,790 And that actually pulls down like and a lot of YouTube, a lot of YouTube creators, a lot of job creators 12 00:01:01,790 --> 00:01:06,770 feel very dowland because of this thinking that they are doing something wrong. 13 00:01:06,770 --> 00:01:12,770 But nope, just don't even think a single minute that you're doing something wrong if you have a haters, 14 00:01:12,890 --> 00:01:16,730 because on the contrary, that means that you are doing everything right. 15 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:17,570 Let me just explain. 16 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:26,660 OK, first, let's have a distinction and about who are the haters, because anything that is against 17 00:01:26,660 --> 00:01:28,820 you, you might feel is a hater. 18 00:01:28,820 --> 00:01:31,760 And everyone who writes something against you is a hater. 19 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:40,250 But that's not true because some things can be beneficial for you, even if it is against your I don't 20 00:01:40,250 --> 00:01:40,960 know, your content. 21 00:01:41,270 --> 00:01:47,570 So who are haters to haters are people who dislike your content for no apparent reason. 22 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:54,560 People who try to insult you in the comments insult you, your content, your appearance, anything, 23 00:01:55,070 --> 00:01:57,260 and people who dislike Button. 24 00:01:57,260 --> 00:02:02,780 As soon as the video is uploaded, you probably have seen it quite a lot, not just on your videos, 25 00:02:02,930 --> 00:02:08,090 most like on the on the bigger channel videos, but when you go and watch the video, video seems pretty 26 00:02:08,090 --> 00:02:08,900 OK, pretty good. 27 00:02:08,900 --> 00:02:10,280 Pretty positive things. 28 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,970 And but you see a lot of these likes and it's weird, right. 29 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,970 Why you do see do you see a lot of these likes and. 30 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,980 Yep, these are exactly the haters. 31 00:02:18,980 --> 00:02:20,720 They dislike the content for no apparent reason. 32 00:02:21,260 --> 00:02:24,320 If you go to the comments, they'll probably write some crappy comments as well. 33 00:02:24,530 --> 00:02:32,150 And they this dislike button as soon as video uploaded, even way before they watch the video, first 34 00:02:32,150 --> 00:02:37,970 thing that they do have to click on the video is to click on a dislike button in a single second, probably 35 00:02:38,090 --> 00:02:40,100 even less than that, depending on how fast they are. 36 00:02:40,700 --> 00:02:49,100 But let's have a distinction of who are not the haters, because people sometimes have a hard time differentiating 37 00:02:49,100 --> 00:02:49,310 them. 38 00:02:49,820 --> 00:02:54,800 People who dislike your content for a reason is not a hater. 39 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,280 B This person just does not like your content. 40 00:02:58,550 --> 00:03:01,160 It's absolutely the right thing to do. 41 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:06,410 If they don't like if they have a reason, it's absolutely OK because not everyone will like your content. 42 00:03:06,530 --> 00:03:07,970 Not everyone likes my content. 43 00:03:08,090 --> 00:03:13,490 Not every one of you will like even this lecture for different reasons or that you have. 44 00:03:13,640 --> 00:03:14,960 And it's absolutely fine. 45 00:03:15,140 --> 00:03:16,880 Nobody has to know. 46 00:03:16,890 --> 00:03:23,540 No content is liked by everyone in no content has to be liked by everyone and people who criticize you 47 00:03:23,540 --> 00:03:25,490 while staying respectful. 48 00:03:25,850 --> 00:03:26,690 Those are not haters. 49 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:32,030 If you go into your comments, if you go to other people's comments, you will see people telling, 50 00:03:32,030 --> 00:03:37,730 criticizing the content, like literally criticizing, not not crapping on the content, but criticizing 51 00:03:37,730 --> 00:03:40,610 on a content like saying, OK, I don't like this, I don't like that. 52 00:03:40,610 --> 00:03:42,380 You said it's it's disrespectful. 53 00:03:42,860 --> 00:03:48,290 And because of this, this and that, I don't like how you portrayed this, that and something like 54 00:03:48,290 --> 00:03:48,500 that. 55 00:03:49,190 --> 00:03:51,890 Those people are respectful in the comments. 56 00:03:52,340 --> 00:03:54,500 They are not haters. 57 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,770 They might hate your content, but they are not haters. 58 00:03:57,770 --> 00:03:59,090 It's completely different thing. 59 00:03:59,090 --> 00:04:06,050 Haters do things for no reason other than just to be there and just to do some bad things. 60 00:04:06,050 --> 00:04:11,980 We are content and here is the phrase that a lot of I hear a lot haters are bothering me. 61 00:04:11,990 --> 00:04:17,180 How do how to do, how to deal with them and how to get rid of them. 62 00:04:17,810 --> 00:04:19,460 And let's just discuss the things. 63 00:04:19,460 --> 00:04:26,870 Let's just discuss three things that you can do with the haters and understand one thing that haters 64 00:04:27,350 --> 00:04:32,180 are indicator that your channel is successful. 65 00:04:32,180 --> 00:04:39,170 My friends, if you have a haters, you want haters on your channel, because if they are there, that 66 00:04:39,170 --> 00:04:43,460 means the channel is successful or is on the way to becoming successful. 67 00:04:43,460 --> 00:04:43,910 How? 68 00:04:44,450 --> 00:04:47,540 Because haters seek attention. 69 00:04:47,900 --> 00:04:53,210 They don't give a damn about your content or about you or about whatever you say in your videos. 70 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:59,150 They seek attention and they think they can find it on your channel. 71 00:04:59,150 --> 00:05:04,320 That means your channel is actually getting a lot of attention if they are there, that. 72 00:05:04,410 --> 00:05:09,420 Means that they are seeking for attention that your channel gets and if they are there, that means 73 00:05:09,420 --> 00:05:13,920 you are getting all your already are successful. 74 00:05:14,670 --> 00:05:17,220 Understand that haters are not bad. 75 00:05:17,510 --> 00:05:19,770 Hatred is not a they are bad the overall. 76 00:05:19,770 --> 00:05:23,040 But for your channel, they are not bad. 77 00:05:23,940 --> 00:05:27,000 They are actually very beneficial for your channel. 78 00:05:28,020 --> 00:05:34,320 And dislikes the Dadu and hateful comments are beneficial for you as well, what you may see. 79 00:05:34,470 --> 00:05:35,550 What do you mean they're beneficial? 80 00:05:35,550 --> 00:05:40,050 Their dislikes, it means people will see video with a lot of dislikes. 81 00:05:40,050 --> 00:05:40,960 They're not going to watch it. 82 00:05:41,340 --> 00:05:48,240 Well, actually, to be a completely fair if people will see video with a lot of these likes, they 83 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:55,490 will most likely watch the videos or to find out what people are actually disliking. 84 00:05:55,770 --> 00:05:58,020 So it's not like that. 85 00:05:58,020 --> 00:06:03,540 People actually will watch videos more with a lot of dislikes than with a lot of likes, with a little 86 00:06:03,550 --> 00:06:12,330 less likes and dislikes and comments are counting as an engagement and engagement is favored by learning 87 00:06:12,330 --> 00:06:12,880 algorithm. 88 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:21,990 Remember the cycle we didn't have this cycle, but still and it causes impressions and more views as 89 00:06:22,020 --> 00:06:23,550 well, not a lot more views. 90 00:06:23,550 --> 00:06:30,600 But depending on how many comments did this and like this like you have, it will be very beneficial 91 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:30,980 for you. 92 00:06:30,990 --> 00:06:34,350 So they are actually doing you a favor by being on your channel. 93 00:06:34,770 --> 00:06:36,840 And if they are just watching your videos. 94 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,880 Wow, even more favor. 95 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,480 If you channel to monetize, they are watching your ads. 96 00:06:41,580 --> 00:06:43,060 That means you are getting money from them. 97 00:06:43,250 --> 00:06:48,170 They are always there on your channel and that's very beneficial for you. 98 00:06:48,180 --> 00:06:50,550 They think they are harming you in some way, shape or form. 99 00:06:50,790 --> 00:06:56,940 But no, you are getting their attention and the attention is occurring, as you remember, and that's 100 00:06:56,940 --> 00:06:58,090 how they're benefiting you. 101 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,490 And to be fair, you can get rid of them. 102 00:07:01,950 --> 00:07:03,780 There is no way, shape or form. 103 00:07:03,780 --> 00:07:04,740 You can get rid of them. 104 00:07:04,740 --> 00:07:06,960 You cannot do anything. 105 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,750 They will always come back. 106 00:07:08,940 --> 00:07:14,280 Haters are like weeds will grow every single time you try to get rid of them. 107 00:07:15,250 --> 00:07:21,940 You might as well enjoy them having fun, like enjoying a look, giving them a funny responses in their 108 00:07:21,940 --> 00:07:25,510 comments, like mock them if you want to have fun. 109 00:07:25,510 --> 00:07:31,390 If they if they want to be hateful against you, you can be hateful in a comical and funny way against 110 00:07:31,390 --> 00:07:32,080 them as well. 111 00:07:32,830 --> 00:07:35,010 And it's a win win situation for you with. 112 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:42,340 And it will be like for your viewers, it will be like we are a team like me and my viewers, our team 113 00:07:42,340 --> 00:07:43,240 against the haters. 114 00:07:43,270 --> 00:07:48,280 That's us, against them, against you, against very little of you are very vocal. 115 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,360 But we're against them. 116 00:07:49,930 --> 00:07:54,520 And sometimes this opposition is very beneficial for you and helps you a lot. 117 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,900 Just remember that you cannot get rid of haters. 118 00:07:58,930 --> 00:08:03,510 I know that some hateful comments that they write is hurtful. 119 00:08:03,850 --> 00:08:08,950 I know that it might get to you because they might write something that you're insecure about. 120 00:08:08,950 --> 00:08:17,350 And it's it's absolutely OK to get hurt, but know that they they cannot do anything to you just except 121 00:08:17,350 --> 00:08:18,850 for just writing the comments. 122 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:19,990 That's it. 123 00:08:20,500 --> 00:08:23,890 The only thing that they can do is try to get attention from you. 124 00:08:23,890 --> 00:08:25,420 They seek attention from you. 125 00:08:25,420 --> 00:08:34,480 And by feeling down from those individuals, you are just giving them what they want, give them what 126 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:34,900 they want. 127 00:08:34,900 --> 00:08:39,570 It's it's OK to give them what they want, but use it as well for your own purpose. 128 00:08:40,180 --> 00:08:45,670 Have fun, have fun engaging with them and like, make fun of them if you want. 129 00:08:45,670 --> 00:08:52,930 It's it's completely OK to do so and try not to be dumb because it will not be beneficial for you. 130 00:08:53,140 --> 00:08:59,520 It will be just it will just burn you out and just hurt you in the long run by a lot. 131 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:07,780 I was down by haters a lot in the past, even here on the floor on the learning platforms. 132 00:09:07,990 --> 00:09:11,440 But it's OK, it's OK to ignore them. 133 00:09:11,620 --> 00:09:13,280 It's absolutely OK to ignore that. 134 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,070 I mean, absolutely OK to have fun with them. 135 00:09:15,550 --> 00:09:21,910 It just don't feel down because they cannot do anything to you except for just hurting you, hurting 136 00:09:21,910 --> 00:09:24,730 you like physically, not physically, just only with the words. 137 00:09:25,300 --> 00:09:29,740 Just don't give a damn about them and continue doing whatever you are doing. 138 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:34,870 And but listen to the ones that are giving you constructive criticism because they might give you some 139 00:09:34,870 --> 00:09:39,580 tips that might be very, very, very beneficial for you in the long run. 140 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:41,110 So this will be for this one. 141 00:09:41,110 --> 00:09:42,060 Let's get to the next one.